Well AF arrived today and I'm ok, better than I thought I would be. I can't say I didn't shed a tear or two, because I did, but I knew IVF was coming. I called my RE and next Thursday we have our IVF Nurse Consult. I'll be doing an U/S and a Trial Transfer, which should be interesting. We are going to meet with our RE and several nurses and go over our plan of action and on all the meds I'll be on. I'll get some questions answered and go from there. I start my BCPs on Friday night and start the Antibiotics next Tuesday.
I think Rob and I have come to the decision that we will do genetic testing on the embryos if it is an option. With everything we have been thru I just don't know if I could bring a child into the world with genetic issues or other health issues. I just couldn't do it. I know for some people, especially those that are Christians, doing genetic testing may not be something you agree with, but it is up to Rob, myself, and God to decide what to do for our IVF. With Rob's condition and all my health issues, I just want to make sure we pick the healthiest embies to transfer. And besides it would be kind of cool to already know the sexes. But I think since we really want to do a 3 embryo transfer if it's possible we would put back 2 boys and 1 girl, and then if we ended up with 1 or 2, we still could wait til the gender reveal to know for sure what it's going to be.
I'm at peace with everything. I called and got the loan paperwork underway and will hopefully have the checks in hand by next week. I'm also going to try and get our taxes done so we can hopefully get some refund money back and put towards the IVF as well. Things are moving along and I can't help but feel that they are moving in the right direction.
The Quiet Zone
12 hours ago
I'm sorry you didn't get your mircale before IVF... But at least you get to move forward now.
ReplyDeleteGlad you're feeling at peace about everything, and I'm SO excited that you are getting started!!!!
Great to hear that everything is getting going - sorry you didn't get good news beforehand, but I hope and pray that this next phase brings you your miracle.
ReplyDeleteSorry she showed up, but I'm glad your feeling at peace with things.
ReplyDeleteI'm glad everything seems to be going forward.
ReplyDeleteHit me up if you want to try and meet up sometime this week. Things have been a bit crazy around here so I could use a break. lol
I thought your post was realistic (health issues) and I agree it's your decision. It's great that you are able to think about it and that things are moving forward.
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Sounds like you have a plan, and I don't know about you, but I always feel better with a plan. Keeping my fingers crossed for you! Enjoy the BCPs. I miss mine. ;o)
ReplyDeleteMoving onto IVF can be disappointing and scary, but it can also bring a great renewal of hope. The process turned out not to be nearly as bad as I expected it to be, and I was more hopeful than I had been in a very long time. I hope that this IVF is as easy for you as it was for me, and that it brings you the baby you want.
ReplyDeleteBest of luck!
Peace is a wonderful thing.
ReplyDeleteHave I mentioned yet how excited I am for you??? I cannot wait to follow your IVF steps and provide support and cheers every step of the way!
Another ICLW visitor. Disappointing to hear about AF - but I hope that knowing you're moving onto the next stage helps you feel happy and positive. Just one step after another - that's how you run the marathon. Good luck!
ReplyDeleteis genetic testing covered by your insurance? We are military and dont pay for care, surgeries, IUIs and a small amount for IVF. Genetic testing is something thats not covered for us.
ReplyDeleteICLW!
I have to say I have been were you are. I hope that IVF brings you a miracle. As it did for us after 4 years. Blessing on your new journey!!
ReplyDeleteI am so wishing for IVF to bring you your baby(ies). It may have worked for me, IVF for 4th time, we'll see. Wishing and praying for the best upcoming months for you. happy iclw
ReplyDeleteSorry that you had to see AF again. But I will keep my fingers crossed for you that IVF brings you that wonderful BFP. Like you, we will probably stop at 3 IUI's and move on to IVF. Nice to meet someone in the same boat
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Sorry about AF's arrival. But hopefully IVF will bring your dream into fruition. Good luck!
ReplyDeleteSorry to hear of AF's arrival. Hopefully IVF will give you your miracle babies!
ReplyDeleteMelissa
ICLW
So sorry you never had good news that would exclude the need for IVF, but you are sounding strong about it. Good luck.
ReplyDeleteAt least you have a plan. That gave me a lot of peace when I realized it was our best chance to have a child, and that I had a plan to get us there. ICLW!
ReplyDeleteHi, stopping by from ICLW blogroll, i know it's hard and scary when IVF is the next step, but you'll definitely get through it. I hope it'll only take one shot for you but be patient. On the genetic testing is totally your call, no one else can really judge you. Fran
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I've been through 6 cycles of IVF (3 fresh and 3 frozen), they can be quite overwhelming. They key is to literally take it a day at a time (as trite as that sounds!). Good luck! I just added your link! Happy ICLW! (http://stressfreeinfertilityblog.com)
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