tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2090581950903472167.post3695756935066098619..comments2024-03-20T04:02:45.614-04:00Comments on Wholeheartedly: WaitingMelissaP05http://www.blogger.com/profile/06581415340250726038noreply@blogger.comBlogger26125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2090581950903472167.post-35246836345315015022010-10-28T22:05:48.492-04:002010-10-28T22:05:48.492-04:00I am sorry for your loss and your IF struggles. I...I am sorry for your loss and your IF struggles. I wanted to share with you that I did a cycle right after a very early loss...I wasn't sure what to do.. if I should, I have the same questions as you.. but I did it and it was a success. The only advice I can offer is to follow your heart... or instincts or your gut or intuition... well you get the idea :-)My Hopeful Journeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15174235283011105722noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2090581950903472167.post-923305690289263762010-10-28T00:24:37.553-04:002010-10-28T00:24:37.553-04:00I'm so sorry for your loss. I pray that your R...I'm so sorry for your loss. I pray that your RE visit will help you with your choices and feeling like you are making the right one.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2090581950903472167.post-91936034641017589362010-10-26T21:11:52.735-04:002010-10-26T21:11:52.735-04:00I too am so sorry to hear about your loss. I hope...I too am so sorry to hear about your loss. I hope things drastically improve for you very soon.Ashleyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03543480612775718706noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2090581950903472167.post-28456983288561601442010-10-25T08:58:33.160-04:002010-10-25T08:58:33.160-04:00I am so sorry for your alls loss. Hopefully your R...I am so sorry for your alls loss. Hopefully your RE will get you on the right protocol and whatever your next step is will bring home your baby. I will be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers.<br /><br />ICLW #8Sarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12248242606378957930noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2090581950903472167.post-57671366754340151942010-10-24T22:19:55.636-04:002010-10-24T22:19:55.636-04:00I'm so sorry to read about your loss. It must ...I'm so sorry to read about your loss. It must be really difficult to grieve your loss and try to plan for your next move. I'm wishing you peace and comfort on this journey.<br /><br />ICLW 128Joyful Hopehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05987839620123555058noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2090581950903472167.post-66215235129105393242010-10-24T14:19:52.426-04:002010-10-24T14:19:52.426-04:00Again, Melissa, I am sorry to hear about your loss...Again, Melissa, I am sorry to hear about your loss. It all sounds like so much to process while dealing with the emotions of both the loss and trying to plan your next step. While you sound a bit better, I am sorry that you feel the decision has to be yours in where you go from here. It is great to hear Rob is open to alternate plans towards parenthood, which is huge and should not be disregarded. Even if Rob is flexible and open-minded, the decision should be made as a couple. Keep letting him know how you feel about the weight of the decision being put onto you. Let him know you are scared and you need his support in the responsibility of making this decision about your life together.<br /><br />Love you!Jamiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06275071143469111072noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2090581950903472167.post-71840728720193340482010-10-23T23:12:06.541-04:002010-10-23T23:12:06.541-04:00I'm so, so sorry for your loss.I'm so, so sorry for your loss.Barefoothttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17514231523278098569noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2090581950903472167.post-57107551617781407592010-10-23T18:14:50.607-04:002010-10-23T18:14:50.607-04:00stopping over from ICLW #31. I'm so sorry for ...stopping over from ICLW #31. I'm so sorry for your second loss. this journey is incrediblly difficult, but you are a strong woman and you will find your way. sending you peace and strength.Kathleenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14220592100816306178noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2090581950903472167.post-27505428164074437582010-10-23T13:40:14.038-04:002010-10-23T13:40:14.038-04:00Stopping in from ICLW.
I am incredibly sorry to h...Stopping in from ICLW.<br /><br />I am incredibly sorry to hear about your journey. I sadly know the heartbreak you feel as well. I have gone through two IVF's myself both with donor eggs from my sister.<br /><br />I hope you get some answers and that the rest of your journey is filled with peace and happiness.<br /><br />*hugs*<br /><br />ICLW #163Courtneyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11725206633751351133noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2090581950903472167.post-31512687877627610802010-10-22T21:45:06.766-04:002010-10-22T21:45:06.766-04:00I'm so very sorry for your loss. It is heart w...I'm so very sorry for your loss. It is heart wrenching to go through a miscarraige after an IVF cycle. It's like you've waited so long and went through so much to have such pain and have to start all over again. I've been there. I hope that you have better luck with any one of your remaining 8 embryos. I also stimmed for a long time and had a chemical on that 3rd fresh cycle but had 9 to freeze. The next FET didn't work but on the next one I became pregnant with my twins who just turned one! Don't lose hope yet! Good luck~ I just added your link.(ICLW #72 & 106)Krissi McVickerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09057275861414960939noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2090581950903472167.post-88276007112730245502010-10-22T21:12:01.771-04:002010-10-22T21:12:01.771-04:00I'm so sorry for your losses. Hopefully you wi...I'm so sorry for your losses. Hopefully you will have more information about how to proceed after your dr's appt on the 2nd. Wishing you all the best!<br /><br />By the way, I'm now a new follower. :)<br /><br />~ICLWKAMhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18261499044344019218noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2090581950903472167.post-78682089733813875192010-10-22T11:46:01.005-04:002010-10-22T11:46:01.005-04:00I agree that you should give yourself some time to...I agree that you should give yourself some time to rest and heal before making your decision. Another week or two won't change anything.heartinchargehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13201855179487928791noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2090581950903472167.post-50779494649974813722010-10-22T10:57:03.446-04:002010-10-22T10:57:03.446-04:00stopping in from ICLW, and just wanted to say that...stopping in from ICLW, and just wanted to say that I am sorry for all that you are going through right now. I hope that whatever course you decide to take that it works for you!Laurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14778859175461382675noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2090581950903472167.post-2687887473766692882010-10-21T20:30:55.482-04:002010-10-21T20:30:55.482-04:00I'm so sorry for your struggles. I've don...I'm so sorry for your struggles. I've done 1 failed IVF - we didn't even make it to transfer due to 'egg issues'. It's hard to decide what to do. We're gonna go for #2 in January, but if that doesn't work either, I'll definitely be at a loss, too. I'm sure you'll make the right decision for you!RaisingCainhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09601962397919660445noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2090581950903472167.post-60782200211639078952010-10-21T19:58:00.702-04:002010-10-21T19:58:00.702-04:00i'm so so sorry you have to go through this. i...i'm so so sorry you have to go through this. i feel left behind too, but don't worry. it's going to happen! i agree with some of the above posters. take some time. your decision will be come clearer in time. hugs!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2090581950903472167.post-91835531219176993582010-10-21T17:17:13.252-04:002010-10-21T17:17:13.252-04:00Stopping by from LFCA..
I am so sorry for your los...Stopping by from LFCA..<br />I am so sorry for your loss. We are all here for you so go ahead and vent!<br /><br />I think your husband is trying to be sweet by letting you decide, but him not airing his opinion has got to be frustrating. So tell him that!Mariannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11851131029178140842noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2090581950903472167.post-51930278540769594252010-10-21T15:14:43.487-04:002010-10-21T15:14:43.487-04:00I am so very sorry for you loss. Definitely take t...I am so very sorry for you loss. Definitely take the time to think things over. <br /><br />ICLW<br />http://daega99-arewethereyet.blogspot.com/daega99https://www.blogger.com/profile/05925235183784718592noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2090581950903472167.post-29582858890556774882010-10-21T14:03:08.955-04:002010-10-21T14:03:08.955-04:00I'm so sorry for your loss. Would you conside...I'm so sorry for your loss. Would you consider seeing a different RE? It sounds like a different protocol is a great idea, but I've definitely dealt with REs who pretty much only do one protocol whether it's right for you or not. Btw I've been with my husband since I was 18 too, and got married at 22--yay young love :). We've been ttc for 4.5 years now and became parents thru open adoption 1.5 years ago. Wishing you healing, and good luck on whatever next steps you choose.Willowhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05319707316191000140noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2090581950903472167.post-15273113280597724402010-10-21T11:32:29.343-04:002010-10-21T11:32:29.343-04:00I'm so sorry for your loss. I agree with the o...I'm so sorry for your loss. I agree with the others...take your time making the right decision, but for the time being focus on you and making sure that you're healing both physically and emotionally.<br /><br />ICLWSoozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16180558301820706509noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2090581950903472167.post-8899771956213408072010-10-20T22:14:50.754-04:002010-10-20T22:14:50.754-04:00Visiting early from ICLW. I'm so sorry about ...Visiting early from ICLW. I'm so sorry about your loss ... I lost two, also, before my current pregnancy. And you're right ... this shouldn't be your decision alone, even if it's your body ... because you'll need Rob's love and support and encouragement. Right now, the most important thing is to be kind to yourself ... whatever that means for you. If it's curling up on the couch with tea and a blanket, then let the decision wait. You deserve time to heal from this.<br /><br />*hugs* to you ...Justine Lhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14190295175501659469noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2090581950903472167.post-61872727655783486882010-10-20T20:30:03.851-04:002010-10-20T20:30:03.851-04:00I know you and I have already talked, but I just w...I know you and I have already talked, but I just wanted to drop by to let you know that I am thinking about you.<br /><br />I know that you and Rob will figure out the right path to continue down. I know you are like me and you like to have a plan, so you will find it - and with it, the peace that comes from knowing your next step.<br /><br />Hang in there.Carlihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00550362674375740757noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2090581950903472167.post-80239236473150536702010-10-20T18:06:25.897-04:002010-10-20T18:06:25.897-04:00*hugs* I am so sorry. I really don't know anyt...*hugs* I am so sorry. I really don't know anything about what I am talking about, but could you do some sort of genetic testing or embryo testing on the frozen eggies you have left to see if there is an issue there? I really hope you get some good news soon.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2090581950903472167.post-37965259655985578702010-10-20T14:12:27.966-04:002010-10-20T14:12:27.966-04:00I agree with ppl. Definitely take some time befor...I agree with ppl. Definitely take some time before making any decisions, like after AF. There are just too many emotions and hormones going on right now.<br />In your situation I would want to do another fresh. I believe I stimmed too quick for my IVF and that's why it failed. I have PCOS and most of us should be stimmed slow. I wasn't responding enough in the beginning and then took off at the end.<br />Even though DH put the decision on you, make sure he knows what you are leaning towards and get his thoughts.<br />We are here for you and all of this sucks. I hope you get answers and get your baby soon.WindDrophttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00880845840821963528noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2090581950903472167.post-25280517723353620082010-10-20T11:33:37.319-04:002010-10-20T11:33:37.319-04:00I feel like one Fresh IVF is not enough knowledge ...I feel like one Fresh IVF is not enough knowledge to give up. I do feel like a new protocol could make a difference. But I do think it's smart to consider that first rather than some other things- if you can afford it of course. I have seen this happen to ladies a few times. First IVF gets a m/c, and then they go through all their FET's without success, only to get pregnant on their next fresh cycle. <br /><br />But, really, you don't need to make any decisions now. Take care of yourself. Things become clearer the farther you get away from it.<br /><br />Just know, you are not the only one languishing, I do know how it feels to see other people getting their miracles and wondering "When it will be me?" <br /><br />Hugs to you.Glass Case of Emotionhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05955456197879910244noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2090581950903472167.post-63140179218818872352010-10-20T11:28:32.600-04:002010-10-20T11:28:32.600-04:00I definitely would not go through the same protoco...I definitely would not go through the same protocol again. Good luck on Nov 2nd. There are lots of us still on this path with you!!Rachhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17403182520873473331noreply@blogger.com