tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2090581950903472167.post2477502992020812926..comments2024-03-20T04:02:45.614-04:00Comments on Wholeheartedly: Deep BreathsMelissaP05http://www.blogger.com/profile/06581415340250726038noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2090581950903472167.post-80469712058458522072010-11-29T09:39:25.226-05:002010-11-29T09:39:25.226-05:00You have been in my thoughts, Melissa. I really h...You have been in my thoughts, Melissa. I really hope this new counselor is a good fit because it can make a world of difference. I am sorry to hear things are so stressed between you and your MIL. While you might be sorry that you freaked out when talking to her, it is sad that she does not realize that it was not directed at her. We cannot be perfect and I am sad she cannot empathize that we all come to our breaking points and that is when we need those who love us the most.<br /><br />Hope your Thanksgiving was a good one!Jamiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06275071143469111072noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2090581950903472167.post-40293840073905603662010-11-27T03:24:53.477-05:002010-11-27T03:24:53.477-05:00You did NOTHING wrong and shame on her for being s...You did NOTHING wrong and shame on her for being so disrespectful to you! She has to give respect to get it and she really dent seem to...stick to your guns on this! Congrats on all the recent good news, and I am soooo sorry for your loss :(. <br />iCLWMoonNStarMommyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14105390387268299310noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2090581950903472167.post-21146170868152661152010-11-26T18:59:36.253-05:002010-11-26T18:59:36.253-05:00Oh god we should get together and share horror sto...Oh god we should get together and share horror stories about our MILs...seriously mine can be horrendous.<br /><br />So sorry.Mariannehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11851131029178140842noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2090581950903472167.post-67133591509256195512010-11-25T03:38:36.213-05:002010-11-25T03:38:36.213-05:00what is it with dramas at the moment? we're in...what is it with dramas at the moment? we're in the middle of a family one with my DH's side of the family, plus i'm in the middle of a drama with a colleague at work...<br /><br />...and like you, we are the innocent parties who have just been dumped upon by someone else.<br /><br />i feel like making a huge sign that says, "just cut us a break already!" <br /><br />hope things settle down for you soon.threelittlekiloshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15808185082307528332noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2090581950903472167.post-37935001944607051642010-11-24T19:08:35.195-05:002010-11-24T19:08:35.195-05:00Oh, how terrible! On top of everything else, to f...Oh, how terrible! On top of everything else, to feel as if your family has let you down...I know that really sucks since you were closer to your MIL than your Mom.<br /><br />Taking a few deep breaths is a great idea. Take as many as you need.<br /><br />And good luck tomorrow dealing with your mom. I hope your Thanksgiving turns out to be stress free.<br /><br />Hugs and I love you.Carlihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00550362674375740757noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2090581950903472167.post-33397416034152039042010-11-24T17:48:45.185-05:002010-11-24T17:48:45.185-05:00Well as crappy as this situation is, it sounds lik...Well as crappy as this situation is, it sounds like you're doing a heck of a job handling it. Choosing a counselor, taking deep breaths and walking away from a situation which you clearly have no control over - because it sounds like your MIL is being very unreasonable...<br /><br />Seriously though, a few deep breaths can go a long way - I use them on a regular basis.<br /><br />Hugs, friend. We'll talk soon.Melissa Ghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04150534738341942742noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2090581950903472167.post-36020041828395131962010-11-24T16:20:05.685-05:002010-11-24T16:20:05.685-05:00GOOD FOR YOU! You don't owe her a damn thing. ...GOOD FOR YOU! You don't owe her a damn thing. It makes me SO angry when people in our lives turn our infertility around and play like they're victims of it too. UGH. I would have a seriously hard time even texting her back, so you're a bigger person than I could be. Wow. I'm so sorry. You don't deserve to be treated like that from anybody, especially not someone who calls herself family.Annahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17418678483756528529noreply@blogger.com